So, I was listening to the radio and this interviewer asks Chelsea Handler, “If you weren’t friends with Jennifer Anniston, would you like Angelina Jolie?” She replies, “No, I don’t like her.” The interviewer then says, “Well, have you even met her?” “No, but I still don’t like her. It has nothing to do with Jennifer, I can just tell she’s not a girl’s girl and I like girl girls so I know I don’t like her,” Handler replies.
This got me thinking of what it means to be a “girl’s girl” Vs. a “guy’s girl.” I’m simply talking about the type of friend a girl can be. I know I’m a guy’s girl. For example, I can’t stand girls and their unnecessary drama and I have more guy friends than girl friends. A guy’s girl can hang out with a group of guy’s or just one guy (as a girl’s girl would do with girls) and “be one of the guys;” no pressure to bone every single one of them, (or can bone all of them, but still remain totally platonic and drama free), just relax, lay low, and no pressure to be all girly and someone that you’re not.
Now a girl’s girl is quite different. This type of girl friend will most likely talk behind your back (while the guy’s girl has no problem saying that thing to your face), and, I don’t know, sit around and gossip all day while painting each other’s ugly toenails? Whatever the those chicks do. This type of friend is extremely needy and needs to hang out every couple of days or you guys aren’t considered friends anymore (unlike the guy’s girl who will hang out whenever she has the time, may be once every month, but we are still friends).
Now let’s talk about a Guy’s Guy Vs. a Girl’s Guy. (WARNING: THIS MAY BE TOO FUNNY). A guy’s guy is all about testosterone PERIOD. These guys get ripped together at the gym and probably also talk behind your back (while the girl’s guy is all about getting in touch with his over sensitive self and happy to share his feelings). A guy’s guy will not open doors for you, tell you how he feels (because it’s gay), and will make you believe chivalry is far dead.
Now let’s shift a little bit to the Girl’s Guy. This guy is all about getting in touch with his feminine side and showing his feelings (all over the place). He’s a HOT MESS.
While he is all about chivalry, it may be a little too overwhelming because let’s face it girls, we like BADASSES and this friend, well he’s mister (too) nice guy. Some may even confuse this friend as gay, but he’s just an over-sensitized, straight guy. This friend doesn’t mind being stuck in the “friend zone” because he’s just glad he gets to be in your presence (it’s most likely the girl is the hot one in this friendship).
Well there you have it! A glimpse of what these terms mean (I bet you’re classifying yourself into one of these groups right meow!)…Cheers until next time☺